【陪伴不僅是覺察長輩的需求,也是內觀的時刻】

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想更了解年長者的初心

記不起的那一天,我滑到晚緣的網站,發現有陪伴長者的志工服務。一方面動念想要了解「年長者」的生活;一方面也覺得「長期陪伴」有別於短期的活動,可能更深入其中,於是開始了我的晚緣志工之旅。

在當志工的過程裡,認識了長者,也學著認識自己

回想起第一次拜訪長者是去年1月到S阿姨家。
從一開始阿姨講了各式文化館服務的經驗,以及子孫滿堂的各種家族史,一次又一次的陪伴,不僅更了解阿姨以及阿姨的家庭,到後來,阿姨還會邀情我當她的灶咖(台:廚房)小幫手,讓我陪他一起煮菜。

第二個拜訪對象是Y伯伯。
伯伯上知天文下知地理,每每都讓我懷疑以前上歷史、地理課時,是不是都在睡覺?伯伯雖然偶爾會對視力缺損感到失落,但每次積極跟我們對談跟分享的態度,都讓我很佩服。

陪伴長者的時間,更讓我有機會反問:如果我是坐在對面的長者,我會怎麼看待這一切?

也許對於大部分的人,身在台北這樣的大都市,以及資訊爆炸的時代,往往會忙於生活中的柴米油鹽醬醋茶。
而對我來說,有幸每次到長者家拜訪,不僅是一個閒話家常的時間,更讓我多了一些忘年之交,讓伯伯教我打太極拳、跟阿姨進廚房、去爬山。
在陪伴長輩的時間裡,不僅是一個覺察對方需求的時間,更是勞碌的日常中,往內觀看自己的時刻。

志工 偉倫

陪伴高齡者會有什麼心境變化?歡迎看另一位志工的分享 【變老的日子,從「心」準備】

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